Yesterday was Valentine's Day, and along with all the mushy posts about partners and kids, all the expected hearts and cupid's arrows, there was a whole bunch of cynicism and sass. And I get it, why one would feel resistance to Valentine's Day as a corporate-created holiday designed to celebrate (and spend money on) a standardized version of love. I know that the typical Valentine's Day message is that romantic (hetero-normative) love is #1 and that being single is some kind